What is bullying?

What can cause bullying?

The reasons for bullying can be any of a child’s characteristics: appearance, material characteristics, thoughts, character.

How can you tell if bullying is possible if your child doesn’t tell you?

Symptoms that parents should pay attention to include: withdrawal, sleep disturbances, eating disorders, anxiety; the child making up various reasons for not going to school or a club; the child asking to take more valuables to school; lack of friends.

What should parents do?

First of all, you should talk to your children proactively about various dangerous situations: bullying, online insecurity, being careful when making new acquaintances, and body boundaries.

If you notice any alarming signs, talk to your child carefully. They may not be able to say they’re being bullied, but they can talk about interactions and unpleasant emotions. Support your child and let them know they won’t be left defenseless. Clarify the difference between normal arguments, where everyone can stand up for themselves, and feeling powerless in the face of bullying.

How to solve the problem of bullying?

• It is important to understand that being a victim of bullying is not a weakness, and being an aggressor is not a strength.
• It should be explained to the child that there is no need to hide this situation and that all participants in the bullying, the teacher, and the school psychologist should be involved in the solution.
• Work with all participants in bullying. Often, the most vulnerable children, suffering from unresolved issues, become the perpetrators. It’s best not to attack or intimidate the bully, but to empower the child to find another outlet for their emotions and offer support. Support children observing the bully in taking responsibility for themselves, within their own strengths and capabilities.
• Be attentive to your child and remember that what parents can always give their children is love, support and protection.

Take care of your children and yourself!